Ableist messages are conveyed early in the life of a stutterer and are amplified throughout the school-age years. Increased recognition of the benefits of acceptance-based therapies for positive long-term outcomes has changed the narrative about stuttering and stutterers.
Speech-language therapists are resonating with the ideas that "it is okay to stutter," socioemotional aspects of stuttering must be considered, and support and community are valuable. Despite the shift in understanding, messages conveyed to students and parents commonly encourage suppression of stuttering and masking of one's stuttering identity. The purpose of this article was to (a) expose unintentional ableist messages that perpetuate stigma and feeling "othered" in the therapy relationship and (b) offer suggestions for congruent messaging in stuttering therapy.